The Power of Gathering
Several years ago I had the opportunity to write a book titled Better Together. It was my attempt to make the case for the community, even for people who are introverted like me.
Though this was not my favorite book I’ve written, it has been the most popular. I guess we all really do need to be convinced of the power of being together.
During this COVID season, extroverted people have been like plants without sunshine and introverts have been living their best life… for the most part. Even I have had some difficult days where I craved even a Zoom call.
This past weekend as our church regathered for the first time I was overwhelmed with several thoughts… and to my surprise, very few of them had anything to do with my introversion.
Over the last few days I’ve been inundated with texts from other pastors asking “How did it go?”, and it has caused me to reflect on our first weekend gathering experience in several months:
We’re Together, but It’s Definitely Different
To be honest, as a Pastor, I was not prepared for how much not being able to hug people, shake hands, see smiles and hear laughter (all due to masks and social distancing) would mess with my head. It’s hard to know how you are connecting with people when you can’t see their faces.
It’s hard to comfort people when you can’t put your hand on their shoulder while praying for them. And it’s difficult to stand on stage and see empty seats masked smiles, and muffled singing… In some ways it was a tough day.
But on the other hand, there is nothing like live worship music. Standing in the auditorium with my family, hearing our band lead us in worship, seeing hands raised around the room… Even though we could only have one hundred people due to current regulations, it was a reminder that as much as I crave alone time due to introversion, I am NOT alone.
We are in this together. And sometimes it helps to see others… even if it’s not that many.
The Church is Better Off Stage Than On
So my learning as a pastor is this: Church is better off stage than on. And let’s be honest, that’s the way it is meant to be. To be in community with each other rather than performing for one another.
To my fellow pastors… seize this season to connect with life in the audience more than life on the stage.
Soak in worship and community and the open hearts of our people. We get too caught up in what to say, how to communicate and how we are being perceived. Just embrace each other (six feet apart, of course).
To my fellow Christians… lower your expectations of what church will be like during a pandemic, and just enjoy the power of being together.
Whether it is on a Zoom call, a backyard watch party for church, or an in person gathering at your local campus, lean into the need to see each other. And even if it may not be life-giving to you at that moment, it may be to others. Someone seeing your faith may just help them continue their faith.
I think this next year will be a series of ups and downs. Openings and closings. Restrictions and regulations. And I think we will continue to all be migrating between online campuses and physical campuses.
But, remember the power of community. It’s not just for the extroverts, it’s for all of us. Because we are made in the image of the Triune God who exists in community. And because of that, we truly are better together.
I like that you used the term “Triune God.” It’s a foundational doctrine in Christianity. Maybe the next time you lead us in prayer, you end by saying, “…in the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.” Calling on all three persons of our Triune God rather than just Jesus Christ. After all, isn’t three heads better than one? 🙂
Hi Rusty – It is nice to know how last weekend, back together, worked out.
Only 100 people allowed. Such a small group.
We will continue to be watching on-line for now.
Seems safer for us. But we do miss you and the band and the chance
to worship with others.
Thank you.
Hi Rusty
Very nice and I agree we really do get caught up in the norm!! The perfect!!
But being in community is what is good and of course what God wants for all of us. In a weird way I think we needed all this to realize what matters.
And with Covid and BLM it goes to show and prove that we all need each other and to be there for each other!!
I really related to what you said!
Thank You
As much as I crave seeing all of you (being a crazy extrovert?), this virus is serious and far from over.
Let’s not concentrate on “being the church” in a building. Let’s “ be the church “ wherever we are. Let’s worship loudly in the shower, in the car, in our family room. So as we ride this roller coaster of Covid 19, we are not so disappointed, distraught and angry when we cannot gather in the way that is familiar to us.
God wants us to step out into the uncomfortable and use our gifts that He has given us, to find new and inventive ways of glorifying him. For many, glorifying Him begins and ends once a week at church. One day this virus will be over and we will be able to see, smile and hug each other once again.
Thank you Rusty for always thinking of ways we can “be together” in this unsettling time for our church. Thank you for your pod casts and your blogs, they really do help us feel connected. God Bless.